Reason and feeling

Reason and feeling are the extremes between which we oscillate all our life on Earth. 

The left hemisphere is the seat of reason and the right hemisphere is the seat of feeling. We don't really harmonize them, we are usually either in one or the other, with repercussions on our lives. I find myself in both, in fact I find myself in extremes. I know the damage extremes can do uncontrolled. 

The excess of reason leads to the cold intelligence of the one who does not believe in the invisible, in the spirit, but believes in matter and the brain, that is, in what he sees with his eyes, hence the rational and calculated scientists who exclude a priori any kind of involvement of his soul of feelings, they exclude the paranormal and magic, they exclude their spiritual roots. 

The excess of feeling leads to creativity, to intuition and inner experiences, to feelings and emotions that can weaken a soul in a materialistic and rational world, without a soul. He is the dreamer who trusts his intuitions and his feelings but ignores the real, cruel and sadistic life. Right-handed people are controlled by the left side of the brain until they pass level 200 of consciousness and spirituality, then the influence of the right hemisphere takes over and left-handed people are guided by the right side of the brain.

Ideally, it would be an efficient combination between reason and feeling, in fact it is the only solution for man to live balanced and harmonized with himself and the Universe. From my experience, we go from one to the other in a linear sequence, we hardly harmonize them to judge both cold and hot, with salutary consequences for our life. 

The imbalance of the cerebral hemispheres also leads to diseases, therefore the middle way would be ideal. Women, of course, are oriented more towards feeling and men more towards reason, but it is not a law. It is said that women give sex to receive love and men give love to receive sex. 

From my experience, when a woman falls in love, God takes her mind, a woman leaves reason aside and acts with predilection in the sense of love and feelings, forgetting to judge the man coldly, making mistakes in judgment, feeling more than reasoning . 

A man is rational by excellence, his sexual and rational instincts do not allow him to fall in love, but to obtain sex and what is in his immediate and personal interest. It's hard for a man to fall in love right away because he's not built that way. Hence the conflicts between the sexes and the impossibility of understanding in couples. We really come from Mars/Venus, as a writer once said. 

Reason and feeling make us act in full knowledge of the cause and determine us to be different than we usually are, individualize our starts and instincts until the loss of understanding as a couple. It's hard to understand a partner who loves when you don't and vice versa. Those who love do it from the heart and warmly, and those who do not love rationalize and judge coldly, taking into account everything that a lover would never take into account. 

It's usually not good to judge a man in love because love eliminates all reason and calculation from the start. I notice with concern that there are fewer and fewer people in love and fewer and fewer households based on love. 

The feelings seem old-fashioned and anachronistic in a world where war and violence are the norm. Emotions are viewed with distrust, feelings are blamed as lacking in trust and effectiveness. People no longer love, no longer laugh, no longer enjoy as before. It's as if education and common sense have disappeared, as well as civic sense and patriotism, they have all fallen into disrepair. 

In speech, the words of the past with the discreet charm of refined and intelligent education, with the wisdom of the man who has reached the peace of the senses, no longer have their place. 

We are a civilization on the verge of extinction, I say this with all responsibility because if there is no love, there is nothing.